This Week’s Picks: August 4, 2013

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Sometimes, we don’t understand everything that happens to us, but it is important to see God’s hand in everything. We must remember there is nothing that escapes His attention. I have heard some incredible testimonies this week of how God has come through, on things that seem small, but matter a lot to us. Whatever you are going through, know he’s got you covered. Always.

1] Karla’s Story-miracles

I saw her story on Answered.tv. I love this channel. If you want to hear about answered prayers on diverse topics, and hear about real miracles, check it out! There is a link on the left bar of the blog. Check out her story here. I liked her story because it reflected a bit of what I work with every day; detention centers, immigration court, visas and asylum. God answer’s prayers.

“He took my pain, and used it for His gain. My name is Karla, and my prayer was answered.” -Karla, answered.tv

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5] Marlene’s story

“Her unborn baby wasn\’t growing. Doctors said something was very wrong.
She prayed for peace and acceptance no matter what happened.” Answered Tv

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7] Marry Me–such a great movie

“Could I just ask you a question? What is wrong with men?” Rae

“Okay, first off, we are told to stop crying by the age of, like, three. And then, every time an adult male leaves the house, he says ‘You’re in charge,’ but your mom is still cutting the crust off your bread; so, deep down inside you know you can’t possibly be in charge because you can’t even make a sandwich. Then, at a certain point, you start to notice girls who aren’t your mom, and you want them to like you, but they don’t usually go for the normal social cues such as: being tackled to the ground, or being called a nickname ‘crap head,’ but then you decide to give her a gift. She laughs at the rock you brought her, even though it’s the coolest rock you’ve ever saw, and it had all kinds of glittery stuff on it. Anyway, let’s just assume for a minute that you work your way through that mine field and you actually get a woman to notice you. Then what happens? Your guy friends turn on you, and they start calling you names. So you spend your entire life trying to satisfy these two disparate groups of people, and then you grow up, and you throw work into that mix, and you start feeling like you are being pulled in three different directions. And you know what? Sometimes, you are just too tired to know what a woman wants from you. Particularly, if you’ve only spoken to her for five minutes on the phone. But we know we would die in a ditch without women, so, we keep trying.” Luke

8] Lawyer up, son.

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mox·ie (mks)
n. Slang
1. The ability to face difficulty with spirit and courage.

2. Aggressive energy; initiative: “His prose has moxie, though it rushes and stumbles from a pent-up surge” (Patricia Hampl).

3. Skill; know-how.

14] It has been a wedding summer
Many friends have gotten married this summer. Pretty, simple and Godly couples. It has been really beautiful to see the ceremonies and how blessed people can be. May God bless all of the happy couples! 🙂

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“A man rejects God neither because of intellectual demands nor because of the scarcity of evidence. A man rejects God because of a moral resistance that refuses to admit his need for God.”
-Ravi Zacharias

The impossible is God’s opportunity

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Some inspiration for the week. God is constantly asking us to try and see that He is good. Let us always look back at the many blessings and see His blessings.

I was inspired by Homecoming Weekend at Sligo Seventh-day Adventist Church at the Washington Adventist University. Our sermon revolved around this message:
(What God gives to us)
“Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth,
Thy own dear presence to cheer and to guide;
Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow,
Blessings all mine, with ten thousand beside
!” –Great is Thy Faithfulness hymn

For those of you who like instrumental or classical music, this is a treat:

“22 Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed,
Because His compassions fail not.
23 They are new every morning;
Great is Your faithfulness.
24 “The Lord is my portion,” says my soul,
“Therefore I hope in Him!”
25 The Lord is good to those who wait for Him,
To the soul who seeks Him.

26 It is good that one should hope and wait quietly
For the salvation of the Lord.”
Lamentations 3: 22-26

Maurette Brown Clark

MAURETTE BROWN CLARK LYRICS

“It Ain’t Over”

I know the odds look stacked against you
And it seems there’s no way out
I know the issue seems unchangeable
And that there’s no reason to shout
But the impossible is God’s chance
To work a miracle, a miracle
So just know

It ain’t over until God says it’s over
It ain’t over until God says it’s done
It ain’t over until God says it’s over
Keep fighting until your victory is won

He never said it would be easy
But you’re a winner in the end
Jesus defeated all your enemies
Way before the fight began
But the impossible is God’s chance
To work a miracle, a miracle
So just know

It ain’t over until God says it’s over
It ain’t over until God says it’s done
It ain’t over until God says it’s over
Keep fighting until your victory is won

When people say you can’t, remember
(He can, He will)
When you don’t know what you’re gonna do,
Please remember
(He has the master plan)
He will free you from your sin
And give you peace within
So you better hold your head up high
You’re gonna win
(You’re gonna win)

It ain’t over until God says it’s over
It ain’t over until God says it’s done
It ain’t over until God says it’s over
Keep fighting until your victory is won

Keep fighting, keep praying, keep fasting
It ain’t over, no
Keep pressing, progressing, keep moving
It ain’t over, no
Keep reading, interceding, keep believing
It ain’t over, no
Keep trusting, keep trying, keep travailing
It ain’t over, no
Keep living, keep giving, keep going
It ain’t over, no
Keep fighting until your victory is won

Know that what seems impossible is God’s opportunity to show off. Keep moving forward because God is good.

Continually, He shows us that He is in control; He cares; He orchestrates; He provides; He has a purpose.

1 Thessalonians 5:24 “Faithful is He that calls you, who also will do it.”

On the mind

1 My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. 2 He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken. 3 How long will you assault a man? Would all of you throw him down– this leaning wall, this tottering fence? 4 They fully intend to topple him from his lofty place; they take delight in lies. With their mouths they bless, but in their hearts they curse. “Selah” 5 Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. 6 He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken. 7 My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge. 8 Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge. “Selah.”
Psalm 62:1-8

Today’s inspiration

“Don’t dig up in doubt what you’ve planted in faith.” Elisabeth Elliot

Amy Carmichael once said: “What is the secret to great living? Entire separation to Christ and devotion to Him. Thus speaks every man and woman whose life has made more than a passing flicker in the spiritual realm. It is the life that has no time for trifling that counts.”

“The more Jesus is the object of our heart’s affections and becomes our supreme treasure, the more we will know joy in serving Him.”
Lydia Covey

“It is not difficult for God to guide us. He longs to do so, and nothing is too difficult for His omnipotence and nothing is too small for His love.” Corrie Ten Boom

Thoughts were found in this month’s Set Apart Girl Magazine. -GY

This Week’s Picks: July 28, 2013

By: Gabriela Yareliz

This week, I celebrated a wedding, and I am also mourning the death of my favorite radio broadcaster, Kidd Kraddick.
I feel like I grew a couple of inches in character this weekend.

I hope that this week, you see all of the opportunities and blessings sent your way.

Please keep the Kidd Nation and Caroline Kraddick in your prayers.

1] Happiness requires effort and work[…] Happiness is not the absence of doing unpleasant things.-Kidd Kraddick

2] Present Sentiments

Lately, I have been thinking of belief, and how when you believe something, you believe it with all of your being. A belief that gives its all. God asks us for everything. Sometimes, we are unsure of giving everything, but often times that is because of lack of trust and personal uncertainty.

Jesus wants us to understand that He gave Himself for us. Belief and love are sacrifice; because in the end, that is what true love is–sacrifice.

We often know the answers to our own questions, and we know what we need to do, but I think our spiritual lives are like gold… as they say, we are refined by fire. Time helps us improve and strengthen our faith.

Philippians 3:7-9, 12-16:
7 But Christ has shown me that what I once thought was valuable is worthless. 8 Nothing is as wonderful as knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have given up everything else and count it all as garbage. All I want is Christ 9 and to know that I belong to him. I could not make myself acceptable to God by obeying the Law of Moses. God accepted me simply because of my faith in Christ.

12 I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. 13 My friends, I don’t feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for what is ahead. 14 I run toward the goal, so that I can win the prize of being called to heaven. This is the prize that God offers because of what Christ Jesus has done. 15 All of us who are mature should think in this same way. And if any of you think differently, God will make it clear to you. 16 But we must keep going in the direction that we are now headed.

When we have God, we have everything. Be willing to give it all, because to live for Christ is gain. All else falls away in the presence of He who has loved you with an unending love.

3] Epiphany
Being unconventional does not always mean being a rebel, but it can mean doing what is right when no one else does it.

4] Q & A: Looking for answers?

5] Call Him, definitely.

“Call to me, and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Jeremiah 33:3

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“If you’re gonna pray, don’t worry. If you’re gonna worry, don’t pray.” Instagram

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“I understand once again that the greatness of God always reveals itself in the simple things.” Like the Flowing River, Paulo Coelho

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9] Thinking of my mom, my soulmate.

10] They aren’t perfect, but this couple makes me believe love and partnership can work if you work at it and want it to work: Kourtney K. and LD


11] Piano Guys

The Godfather of Radio: Kidd Kraddick

By: Gabriela Yareliz

My heart is broken. Kidd Kraddick is gone. He died this weekend of cardiac disease at a golf tournament, while raising money for his charity: Kidd’s Kids (where they take terminally ill children to Disney World with their families for some perfect days and good memories). An enlarged heart. He did have a very big heart.

I hate morning shows– except his. I found him on 106.7 in Gainesville, Florida. He was my company from the crack of dawn when I would commute to the university to go to my reporting labs. I loved his funny sarcasm and sincerity. Out of everyone on the show, I felt he was the one who would say what I was thinking. He filled my mornings with joy, happiness, laughter and tears. I have quoted him and the show many times on the blog. When I found him, I fell in love with the show. I love it so much, I have the App. Kidd Kraddick in the morning went with me wherever I went.

There are so many people whose life he changed. His love for his daughter Caroline charmed us all. His disagreements with Kellie Rasberry made us roll our eyes. The way he would find young starting artists and give them time to share their talent, would make us curious and instant fans of people some others never heard of. He would promote new artists and encourage them.

He would do the most hilarious bits. At Christmas time, he would go into a family in need’s house and fill their house with gifts and things they needed.

He was so funny; so real; so unique. All of us who listened to him; we knew him. He gave us a piece of himself.

My favorites:
I loved the Teacher Test bit; His cute, high pitched ADHD character;

His commentary on the Love Letters to Kellie were hilarious; On Fridays, he would “flush the format,” and jam to a remix of music (got to start the weekend on the right foot); Kidd would make fun of Kellie’s “dollar store” ways, Big Al’s bar and funny relationships, J-si being Korean when he is really Mexican and Jenna’s sporty manliness; His Nickelback; the Sweat hotel parody; His ringtone: “You can rise to the top and C’complish it all.”

There was the must-be-nice guy, and the Kinsey bit: “J-si Whatthehell!”

I have nothing else to say, except that I hope that Kellie, Big Al, Jenna and J-si continue to bless others the way Kidd did.
Together the Kidd Nation mourns the loss of an amazing person.
May God bless him and recompense his kindness and love toward others. May God bless his family with peace.

Kidd Kraddick, no one on radio made me laugh like you.
When you blessed others, I would sit in my car, sobbing. Your life showed what it was like to be someone else’s angel.

Kidd Kraddick reminded me of what is really important every day, saying:
“Keep looking up, ’cause that’s where it all is.”

As read on the show by J-si: (with modification from the version read at Queen Elizabeth’s funeral)

You can shed tears that he is gone

Or you can smile because he has lived

You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back

Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left

Your heart can be empty because you can’t see him

Or you can be full of the love that you shared

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday

Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember him and only that he is gone

Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back

Or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

written 1981

David Harkins 1959 –

Silloth, Cumbria, UK

Love you Kidd.

Jab Tak Hai Jaan: Meera

By: Gabriela Yareliz

NOTE: This is a character and movie analysis so: Spoiler Alert.

Yash Chopra made his last film a deeply religious one. I don’t know if this reflects a belief he had close to the time of his death, or a philosophy or vision of God questioned or clung to. Perhaps it was a conflict within himself, or one he saw first hand. I guess we won’t know, but in my opinion the film’s main impact was caused by Meera.

Prior to watching Jab Tak Hai Jaan, I had seen some interviews of the cast talking about their characters. Katrina Kaif was talking about Meera, her character, and how she didn’t identify with her, and she said it was hard to do things on screen that she would never do as herself. Strangely, I am not a fan of Katrina Kaif as herself, but I tend to really like her roles.

In this film, I thought I would absolutely be charmed by Akira, Anushka Sharma’s character–yet the one I really identified with was Meera. It is one of the most complex characters I have ever seen portrayed. Layers and layers. Many people, when talking about Meera, paint her as overly religious and a bit crazy. However, I see where she is coming from and thought it was so incredibly well done, yet complex all the same.

Complex is definitely the word to describe Meera’s character.

We see Meera at the beginning as clean, good, innocent, obedient and modest. She is quite the negotiator. At one point, she tells God she is going to be introduced to a young man, and she prays to God that the guy won’t like her, and then promises that if this happens she will give up fur coats. She spends time at the church praying to Jesus and trying to make “deals” (for lack of a better word) with Him. She promises to give up vices and negative things in her life, if her prayer is answered, and so she lives keeping her promises to God and obtaining favor (or at least that is how it is illustrated).

It is because of Meera, that religion is a central theme, and Jesus is a symbol throughout the film. I never liked her negotiating ways with God, for the Bible itself says God does not owe us anything. However, sometimes, when you want something bad enough and you pray, you are not a stranger to the feeling. This strange internal feeling that surges at times when we want to show how serious we are about something by promising to give up something else that means a lot to us. Promising things to God is a very serious matter, so this is a tricky element in the film. However, something I like is she speaks to God in a way that shows she feels they are partners in crime. Friends.

When she would go to the church, she reminded me of Hannah, the barren wife of Elkanah, who asks God for a son and promises that if He gives her the son, she will dedicate him to the Lord. The film depicts prayer as something powerful, which is something I completely agree with.

Anyway, along with the story: Meera finds Samar and asks him to help her learn a Punjabi song for her father’s birthday, and of course–they fall in love. Meera finds herself at a cross, a place where not disappointing her father is the most important thing (he has a nice boy picked out for her), and a part of herself she never knew emerges.

As she falls in love with Samar; something in her is awakened, and she is never the same.

She then drags Samar to a church, so they can both promise God they won’t cross the line of friendship.

She ultimately fails to not cross that line. She does it in a moment where she learns about love and her mother’s love story. It is one of Meera’s most human moments in the film. She goes from being an unattainable Madonna type to someone who loves intensely, despite the love’s flaws. She decides to go all in.

After being completely lost in their love, Samar has an accident; she feels responsible. She feels that by breaking the promise she made, she brought the ill fortune upon Samar.

As he is on the street unconscious, she prays to God to save Samar, and promises that if He does, then she will give up what is of most value to her: Samar himself.

She mentions at some point that to obtain something you really want, you must give up something too.

Samar’s life is saved. The whole movie turns on this point.
Samar gets angry with her when she tells him her promise. She tells him, what I think is one of the most meaningful dialogue lines in the entire script, that he might think she is crazy, but that her belief is real to her, and it’s so strong no one can take it from her.

Samar’s anger consumes him for the rest of his life as he continues to decide to embrace death each day by being on a bomb defusing squad, because life without Meera is like death itself. He believes that if he dies, Meera’s belief will end. God never lets him die.

Meera’s belief is so strong it keeps her away from Samar for a decade. Of course Yash Chopra redeems the vision of God in the film by making the point that God saved Samar’s life so that he could be happy with Meera, not so that they could deprive themselves of love. The premise is, Love has its time.

When one’s belief in God is so strong, I believe it becomes almost like a wedding. When you promise something to God or make some sort of commitment to Him, its like you promise to forsake all others for Him; to be obedient to Him.

So while others see Meera as crazy, I understand her devotion and promise. The complexity arrives at the point of love. God is love. Meera and Samar loved each other so much (of course this is a movie, but I have heard of such exceptional stories in real life), neither got married or chose another. To what extent does God’s love reflect on human love? Does such a love exist, or are people too selfish these days to even fathom abstaining from something unless they get who it is they want? Is remaining alone because of “uncompleted”/”unreciprocated” love foolish? Why do Indian movies revolve around love when so many people simply choose who they marry and learn to love later?

The complexity between love and belief has captivated my little mind. I like to believe that there is a providential love that God orchestrates and puts His faith in.

I think Meera deserves more credit. She is not the only one in the world who prays. She is not the only one in the world who loves.

Who knows how the world works? Well, God does.
He knows the intricacies in human hearts. The heart is deceitful above all things, so it has been said. At the same time, love is the most powerful force in the world.

God is love. God bows in the face of love when He shows us the ultimate expression of His love, freedom to choose. There are people who come into our hearts, and they stay, forever.

Love is complicated, but I do believe that when it is felt, it is known by every atom of one’s being.

EDIT: Maybe I don’t know exactly how to talk about the complexity of the film’s focus, but I wanted to address the things that made me think. What I do understand is her devotion and “strong belief,” and how it shaped her choices. I also identify with Yash Chopra’s belief of providential love withstanding time.

Anyway–

Akira ends the film saying, “Love that breaks you but still keeps you together;
love that creates distances but still brings you closer.
Love that is true and forever.

And I learned that if you have the power to love like that,
then God makes sure that your love finds its way.”