Discipline

Seth Cohen vibes.

“That’s why optimism is a discipline. It takes discipline to see the good when things are going bad. It takes discipline to see beauty in the midst of tragedy. It takes discipline to see the best in people when they let us down. It takes discipline to forgive when the person does not deserve it. It takes discipline to reject the negative voices in our heads and choose to listen to the optimist who’s cheering us on.” Erwin McManus, Mind Shift

This Week’s Favs 05.13.26

This week’s vibes.

I write to you from one of the most zen places on earth— North Central Florida. It’s so still, all I hear now is the hum of the refrigerator, crickets outside and a slow drip coming from somewhere. I’ll write more about the hometown later— but for now, just know that I have been baptized by the sun’s fire and the rain’s kiss. My crispy red shoulders are proof of that.

Here are some of the things that made me smile as my nervous system screeched to a halt of frenetic energy and settled into something simpler and nourishingly familiar.

When it’s over, I want to say: all my life / was a bride married to amazement.” Mary Oliver

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the deeper you heal, the more type c you become. less drama. less urgency. less reacting to everything. less ruminating. you just start protecting your energy like your life depends on it. suddenly anything that disrupts your peace feels physically incorrect so it’s all just… strangely easeful.” Jordan Younger

Feeling Magazine’s! summer reading program! (For those of us who miss the fun!)

Words by Jessy Easton on Substack:

“I told my husband not to get me anything for Mother’s Day. Money has been tight, like really tight, and | meant it. Yesterday morning he cleaned the whole house while I slept in. Then he brought me tea in bed, made blueberry pancakes, and handed me cards filled with poems he and my son had written together.

Then there was one small package.

1 could feel the anxiety immediately. That buzzing feeling. The fear that he’d spent money we don’t really have. I opened it and inside was a tiny wax cherry. A few weeks ago we’d wandered into one of those beautiful shops where everything is handmade and lovely, and I’d picked it up, thinking what a perfect little birthday candle. I set it back down. We kept walking. He went back for it.

It probably cost only a few dollars, but it’s sitting on my writing desk now and every time I look at it, I feel loved in this incredibly specific way. Like, hey, I’m paying attention, I remembered, I see you.

Being rich has very little to do with money.

Sometimes it looks like sleeping in.

Like warm tea upon waking up.

Like salty butter pooling over blueberry pancakes.

Like poems written by the people you love most.

Like being seen, thought of, cared for, remembered, celebrated, loved.

Money is tight. But damn, I am rich.”

Words by Lina on Substack.

“I think the best writing prompts are less about creativity and more about permission.

Permission to pay attention.

Permission to exaggerate.

Permission to take your inner monologue seriously for once.”

“Less here’s what I’m still worried about from yesterday and more here’s what I’m building. More fun, more expansive, more exciting. It sets a completely different tone for the whole day.

The meditations I gravitate toward are all about visualization – specifically, what would your perfect day look like? The setting, the pace, the people, the work, all of it exactly the way you want it. These aren’t meant to be realistic. You’re not thinking through your todo list. You’re painting a picture of your best possible life and dropping into a random, beautiful day within it.” Paige Kershaw

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Ignore Them All

“Nobody tells you this: No matter how you choose to live, people will tell you that you’re doing it wrong.

Wrong priorities. Wrong work. Wrong relationships.

Wrong whatever. Your entire life will change the moment you learn to smile, nod, and ignore every single one of them.” Sahil Bloom

The Gift of Vision

Never forget that the gift of vision was so important that when the world was first created, the first command was for Light in order to see, and after finishing each day’s task, the Great Creator glanced back and ‘saw that it was good.’ We need to see how good it is, too.” Sarah Ban Breathnach

Everything

Image via Set Active Pinterest.

Our job is not to get better at predicting, projecting, or becoming attached to uncertain possibilities, but having sincere faith that what we know needs to happen next is the key that eventually unlocks everything we’ve been waiting for, everything we’ve ever wanted to be.” Brianna Wiest

Today’s Dose of Nostalgia: Pluto and VHS

By: Gabriela Yareliz

I saw this and smiled when I saw Pluto and its mixed status. Spoiler alert— now, while Mars is the most popular, Pluto remains on the list. As children, we were intrigued by it. Then, they told us it wasn’t a planet. We didn’t care. We are the generation that kept Pluto. You can take Pluto off the list but can’t take it from our hearts.

I was laughing this week while listening to Theo Von who was taking about seeing recordings from shows and movies from the 90s. It always looks so bad quality but he brought up the good point that when we watched it then, it was clear to us then. He is right. It’s not high def like today’s stuff, but it was clear to us then. His guest Fahim Anwar suggested that maybe the broadcast was better, and it doesn’t translate to the recording technology. Whatever it is— it’s weird to look back and see such weird quality to something that felt so clear.

Ahhh the 90s, when TV was clearer than it is now, it feels, and Pluto reigned.

Maxine’s ABCs

Maxine being crafty. Image via Apple TV+.

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Have you been crafting, scheming and plotting, lately? (And while these words carry a negative connotation, I don’t mean them negatively or involving deceit. Just trying to imply a cleverness to trying to figure stuff out). Like being astute.

I feel like I went to bed in a crafty little mind cloud after almost inducing a panic attack. My mind was racing. I got the worst sleep score in a while (maybe ever). Hell, I woke up scheming. I was feeling very Maxine Dellacorte-Simmons, today. You know, when she paces and says, “Think, Maxine, think.”

I admire her ability to maneuver stressful situations. She always came up with something.

If there is anything we should take from Maxine, it’s her ABCs— always be crafty.