The Indomitable Torts

John Tortorella has always been known for his passion.

By: Gabriela Yareliz

He is brutally honest. He has been known to speak to the opposing team and coach, his own team, the refs, and the media with the same tone. He has racked up more than $500k in disciplinary fines over the span of his career. In the past, he has told the media bluntly that his team “sucks” and hasn’t done “anything.” (See when he coached the Flyers). He has been ejected from games, gotten into fights in hallways and shown off a hand cast behind the bench. He is that coach that will grab a fool by the collar quick— or at least, that is the vibe. He is passion and fire, and there is no sleeping in his presence— he is John Tortorella.

He was fired for hurting feelings. You know what happens when you focus on feelings? You end up like the New York Rangers— last in the rankings. (See Mike Sullivan).

The Vegas Knights almost didn’t make the playoffs, and now, they are the Western Conference champs.

Their coach, the incredibly controversial and spicy John Tortorella has said on record that the team “activated itself” and knows what it takes to win. And someone as wise as him is right, but we shouldn’t ignore the fact that something shifted when Vegas hired Tortorella with eight games left in the regular season. And listen, Vegas didn’t suck. They were close to being in a playoff spot. They just weren’t. And now, here we are.

Tortorella, Paul Maurice— these are the types of coaches they make movies about. A player as brilliant as Brady Tkachuk wanted to be Torts’ (as he calls him) whipping boy. When the Team USA head coach would step out after a pre-game speech, Team USA players leaned in to hear what Tortorella had to say next. I am convinced that this man was a key part of our win. Don’t think I didn’t notice that when Brady went out on the ice and did something that showed savage leadership, when he would return to the bench, Tortorella could be seen whispering into his ear grinning from ear to ear or patting him on the back with enthusiasm. We saw you, Tortorella, dressed in muted colors try to blend in with the other staff, but always standing out.

Excellence knows excellence.

The Eastern Conference champ hasn’t revealed itself, yet. But here is my Stanley Cup prediction— I don’t think any team wants it as bad as Vegas. After being fired and away from the ice for a bit, this, and the USA victory at the Olympics are Tortorella’s ultimate comeback story. They spell out his grit and winning mindset.

A coach like Tortorella creates space and lights a fire for leaders and brilliance to rise like a hot air balloon. The other teams may play hard, and we know teams like the Carolina Hurricanes lock in and grind— but I don’t think anything will beat the savagery of the Vegas Knights this year because of the voice they have in the locker room. Nothing is more savage than Torts ready to win. They are out to win it. And there is something about a coach and team that are rising from the ashes— they are unstoppable. I hope this will be the Florida Panthers, next year.

That type of hunger must be fed. And Vegas seems to be out to eat everything in its way.

Something the NYR need to hear.

I love rooting for a good coach. This is why Paul Maurice is a top figure for me in the NHL. The best coaches give space for the players to receive their glory, because they are the ones who play. But I like to focus on the voice in the heads of these players.

This year, I am rooting for the indomitable John Tortorella. May his team bring him the honor he deserves and the fruit of the work ethic he has cultivated and instilled over the years. These Knights are fixin’ to slay every dragon in their path. And if that’s not what life is about— what is it about?

Listen to this shorter-than-30-second clip of Tortorella’s pre-game speech with Columbus whenever you need encouragement to take the next step boldly:

It’s that time of year. The Stanley Cup is up for grabs, and you just got to BELIEVE. I believe in Tortorella and the team he was yelling at and inspiring last night. Let’s go!

Remembering

By: Gabriela Yareliz

I always cry on Memorial Day. The closing ceremony of the parade always gets me. Usually, it’s when I hear names read off of people we refuse to forget, or when they tell the stories of heroism we shouldn’t lose sight of.

I cry when I see the gold star moms hold up photos of their sons. I cry when I see elderly veterans with canes carry wreaths, remembering those they fought alongside with. Their faces, impossible to read.

As was aptly said yesterday, we remember every day. Every day is Memorial Day.

We remain grateful for sacrifice, courage and freedom. We remember.

Prime Time Capsule

Kourtney and Khloe Take the Hamptons.

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Prime holds a time capsule.

Guys, I just found out this weekend that Amazon Prime shows live television loops. I discovered this because Brendan Burchard’s GrowthDay Network streams on Prime for free. You can watch his conversations and coaching sessions with Ed Mylett, Trent Shelton, Mel Robbins, Erin McManus, etc., on there.

As I clicked through, I saw they show Shark Tank México, Maury (yes, of the “you are not the father” fame; boasting titles like “who fathered your three kids… me or your cousin?”) and old reruns of Judge Judy and Kourtney and Khloe Take Miami and Kourtney and Khloe Take the Hamptons (this one took me back to 2009-2015; a moment of silence for Kourtney, who no longer suffers long with Scott Disick— may she be happy with Travis Barker forever). There is even The Apprentice channel.

An old classic.

As we were flipping through, I reflected on how wild it was that Jerry Springer and Maury would play for hours on daytime television and how riled the crowd would get, and also how depressed and skinny Kourtney Kardashian looked in the 2010 era. I remembered DASH, the Kardashians’ store and the line around the block in Soho to get in.

Prime Live TV is a true blast from the past. Let it take you for a ride.

Baby Jesus

These were sprinkled all over North Central Florida.

Oh my word, we have one more. I didn’t see that one. Someone left us another baby Jesus!” Lady with the blue eyeshadow at the Citrus Welcome Center in Ocala

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Everywhere we went, we found baby Jesuses. At the citrus center, restaurants, coffee shops, and even our captain on the glass bottom boat in the springs had a collection. I complimented him on his collection, and he grinned and said “thank you.” Apparently, my mom even has one or two in her classroom.

I found them to be funny and cute. The sash always says something about Jesus loving you. They spark joy.

The first time I saw them was a clip of Kris Jenner putting them into every handbag, pocket and suitcase. At that time, I had no idea they were taking my hometown by storm.

So I decided to put them all over NYC. Who doesn’t love some Southern charm and the love of Jesus in the gritty big city?

My expression every time I leave a Baby Jesus behind with pure stealth.

Random Acts of Opportunity

What God is giving you is not a destiny but an opportunity.” Erwin McManus

This Week’s Favorites 05.21.26

By: Gabriela Yareliz

It’s our first week back home after some time away, and we are on the verge of summer. It’s so close you can taste it. Summer fridays just around the corner, even though we had hail yesterday.

I have this itch to clean. To work out. To plan. To be tan.

This week’s vibe is:

A well-run home is a microcosm of sanity in a world that is plainly mad. If a home doesn’t make sense, nothing does.” Henrietta Ripperger

We need flowers everywhere!
Nostalgia is always welcome.
More flowers.
These shoes are magical.
Pops of color!

Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is. Adjust your attitude.

Change how you see things. Look for the good in all situations. Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow. Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.” Reclaim Your Energy Substack

Work ethic eliminates fear.” Michael Jordan

People will never rise above their opinion of themselves.” Peter Sage

May all the little girls who were told they were ‘wise beyond their years’ be unburdened and silly again.” Francesca Emilia

Song this week:

A Rare Breed

There are people who say what they mean.

It’s rare, but they exist. It’s funny because when you meet one, you just know. It’s a frequency thing that syncs with your soul.

When you find such a person, keep them close.

Love the Questions

Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.

Rainer Maria Rilke 

Victoria Beckham on Aspire

By: Gabriela Yareliz

I loved this interview and conversation between Emma Grede and Victoria Beckham. Hilariously (and very on-brand), I was wearing VB Beauty eyeliner while listening.

We all wanted to be Posh Spice on the playground in the 2nd grade.