This Week’s Picks: July 28, 2013

By: Gabriela Yareliz

This week, I celebrated a wedding, and I am also mourning the death of my favorite radio broadcaster, Kidd Kraddick.
I feel like I grew a couple of inches in character this weekend.

I hope that this week, you see all of the opportunities and blessings sent your way.

Please keep the Kidd Nation and Caroline Kraddick in your prayers.

1] Happiness requires effort and work[…] Happiness is not the absence of doing unpleasant things.-Kidd Kraddick

2] Present Sentiments

Lately, I have been thinking of belief, and how when you believe something, you believe it with all of your being. A belief that gives its all. God asks us for everything. Sometimes, we are unsure of giving everything, but often times that is because of lack of trust and personal uncertainty.

Jesus wants us to understand that He gave Himself for us. Belief and love are sacrifice; because in the end, that is what true love is–sacrifice.

We often know the answers to our own questions, and we know what we need to do, but I think our spiritual lives are like gold… as they say, we are refined by fire. Time helps us improve and strengthen our faith.

Philippians 3:7-9, 12-16:
7 But Christ has shown me that what I once thought was valuable is worthless. 8 Nothing is as wonderful as knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have given up everything else and count it all as garbage. All I want is Christ 9 and to know that I belong to him. I could not make myself acceptable to God by obeying the Law of Moses. God accepted me simply because of my faith in Christ.

12 I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. 13 My friends, I don’t feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for what is ahead. 14 I run toward the goal, so that I can win the prize of being called to heaven. This is the prize that God offers because of what Christ Jesus has done. 15 All of us who are mature should think in this same way. And if any of you think differently, God will make it clear to you. 16 But we must keep going in the direction that we are now headed.

When we have God, we have everything. Be willing to give it all, because to live for Christ is gain. All else falls away in the presence of He who has loved you with an unending love.

3] Epiphany
Being unconventional does not always mean being a rebel, but it can mean doing what is right when no one else does it.

4] Q & A: Looking for answers?

5] Call Him, definitely.

“Call to me, and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Jeremiah 33:3

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“If you’re gonna pray, don’t worry. If you’re gonna worry, don’t pray.” Instagram

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“I understand once again that the greatness of God always reveals itself in the simple things.” Like the Flowing River, Paulo Coelho

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9] Thinking of my mom, my soulmate.

10] They aren’t perfect, but this couple makes me believe love and partnership can work if you work at it and want it to work: Kourtney K. and LD


11] Piano Guys

The Godfather of Radio: Kidd Kraddick

By: Gabriela Yareliz

My heart is broken. Kidd Kraddick is gone. He died this weekend of cardiac disease at a golf tournament, while raising money for his charity: Kidd’s Kids (where they take terminally ill children to Disney World with their families for some perfect days and good memories). An enlarged heart. He did have a very big heart.

I hate morning shows– except his. I found him on 106.7 in Gainesville, Florida. He was my company from the crack of dawn when I would commute to the university to go to my reporting labs. I loved his funny sarcasm and sincerity. Out of everyone on the show, I felt he was the one who would say what I was thinking. He filled my mornings with joy, happiness, laughter and tears. I have quoted him and the show many times on the blog. When I found him, I fell in love with the show. I love it so much, I have the App. Kidd Kraddick in the morning went with me wherever I went.

There are so many people whose life he changed. His love for his daughter Caroline charmed us all. His disagreements with Kellie Rasberry made us roll our eyes. The way he would find young starting artists and give them time to share their talent, would make us curious and instant fans of people some others never heard of. He would promote new artists and encourage them.

He would do the most hilarious bits. At Christmas time, he would go into a family in need’s house and fill their house with gifts and things they needed.

He was so funny; so real; so unique. All of us who listened to him; we knew him. He gave us a piece of himself.

My favorites:
I loved the Teacher Test bit; His cute, high pitched ADHD character;

His commentary on the Love Letters to Kellie were hilarious; On Fridays, he would “flush the format,” and jam to a remix of music (got to start the weekend on the right foot); Kidd would make fun of Kellie’s “dollar store” ways, Big Al’s bar and funny relationships, J-si being Korean when he is really Mexican and Jenna’s sporty manliness; His Nickelback; the Sweat hotel parody; His ringtone: “You can rise to the top and C’complish it all.”

There was the must-be-nice guy, and the Kinsey bit: “J-si Whatthehell!”

I have nothing else to say, except that I hope that Kellie, Big Al, Jenna and J-si continue to bless others the way Kidd did.
Together the Kidd Nation mourns the loss of an amazing person.
May God bless him and recompense his kindness and love toward others. May God bless his family with peace.

Kidd Kraddick, no one on radio made me laugh like you.
When you blessed others, I would sit in my car, sobbing. Your life showed what it was like to be someone else’s angel.

Kidd Kraddick reminded me of what is really important every day, saying:
“Keep looking up, ’cause that’s where it all is.”

As read on the show by J-si: (with modification from the version read at Queen Elizabeth’s funeral)

You can shed tears that he is gone

Or you can smile because he has lived

You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back

Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left

Your heart can be empty because you can’t see him

Or you can be full of the love that you shared

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday

Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember him and only that he is gone

Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back

Or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

written 1981

David Harkins 1959 –

Silloth, Cumbria, UK

Love you Kidd.

Jab Tak Hai Jaan: Meera

By: Gabriela Yareliz

NOTE: This is a character and movie analysis so: Spoiler Alert.

Yash Chopra made his last film a deeply religious one. I don’t know if this reflects a belief he had close to the time of his death, or a philosophy or vision of God questioned or clung to. Perhaps it was a conflict within himself, or one he saw first hand. I guess we won’t know, but in my opinion the film’s main impact was caused by Meera.

Prior to watching Jab Tak Hai Jaan, I had seen some interviews of the cast talking about their characters. Katrina Kaif was talking about Meera, her character, and how she didn’t identify with her, and she said it was hard to do things on screen that she would never do as herself. Strangely, I am not a fan of Katrina Kaif as herself, but I tend to really like her roles.

In this film, I thought I would absolutely be charmed by Akira, Anushka Sharma’s character–yet the one I really identified with was Meera. It is one of the most complex characters I have ever seen portrayed. Layers and layers. Many people, when talking about Meera, paint her as overly religious and a bit crazy. However, I see where she is coming from and thought it was so incredibly well done, yet complex all the same.

Complex is definitely the word to describe Meera’s character.

We see Meera at the beginning as clean, good, innocent, obedient and modest. She is quite the negotiator. At one point, she tells God she is going to be introduced to a young man, and she prays to God that the guy won’t like her, and then promises that if this happens she will give up fur coats. She spends time at the church praying to Jesus and trying to make “deals” (for lack of a better word) with Him. She promises to give up vices and negative things in her life, if her prayer is answered, and so she lives keeping her promises to God and obtaining favor (or at least that is how it is illustrated).

It is because of Meera, that religion is a central theme, and Jesus is a symbol throughout the film. I never liked her negotiating ways with God, for the Bible itself says God does not owe us anything. However, sometimes, when you want something bad enough and you pray, you are not a stranger to the feeling. This strange internal feeling that surges at times when we want to show how serious we are about something by promising to give up something else that means a lot to us. Promising things to God is a very serious matter, so this is a tricky element in the film. However, something I like is she speaks to God in a way that shows she feels they are partners in crime. Friends.

When she would go to the church, she reminded me of Hannah, the barren wife of Elkanah, who asks God for a son and promises that if He gives her the son, she will dedicate him to the Lord. The film depicts prayer as something powerful, which is something I completely agree with.

Anyway, along with the story: Meera finds Samar and asks him to help her learn a Punjabi song for her father’s birthday, and of course–they fall in love. Meera finds herself at a cross, a place where not disappointing her father is the most important thing (he has a nice boy picked out for her), and a part of herself she never knew emerges.

As she falls in love with Samar; something in her is awakened, and she is never the same.

She then drags Samar to a church, so they can both promise God they won’t cross the line of friendship.

She ultimately fails to not cross that line. She does it in a moment where she learns about love and her mother’s love story. It is one of Meera’s most human moments in the film. She goes from being an unattainable Madonna type to someone who loves intensely, despite the love’s flaws. She decides to go all in.

After being completely lost in their love, Samar has an accident; she feels responsible. She feels that by breaking the promise she made, she brought the ill fortune upon Samar.

As he is on the street unconscious, she prays to God to save Samar, and promises that if He does, then she will give up what is of most value to her: Samar himself.

She mentions at some point that to obtain something you really want, you must give up something too.

Samar’s life is saved. The whole movie turns on this point.
Samar gets angry with her when she tells him her promise. She tells him, what I think is one of the most meaningful dialogue lines in the entire script, that he might think she is crazy, but that her belief is real to her, and it’s so strong no one can take it from her.

Samar’s anger consumes him for the rest of his life as he continues to decide to embrace death each day by being on a bomb defusing squad, because life without Meera is like death itself. He believes that if he dies, Meera’s belief will end. God never lets him die.

Meera’s belief is so strong it keeps her away from Samar for a decade. Of course Yash Chopra redeems the vision of God in the film by making the point that God saved Samar’s life so that he could be happy with Meera, not so that they could deprive themselves of love. The premise is, Love has its time.

When one’s belief in God is so strong, I believe it becomes almost like a wedding. When you promise something to God or make some sort of commitment to Him, its like you promise to forsake all others for Him; to be obedient to Him.

So while others see Meera as crazy, I understand her devotion and promise. The complexity arrives at the point of love. God is love. Meera and Samar loved each other so much (of course this is a movie, but I have heard of such exceptional stories in real life), neither got married or chose another. To what extent does God’s love reflect on human love? Does such a love exist, or are people too selfish these days to even fathom abstaining from something unless they get who it is they want? Is remaining alone because of “uncompleted”/”unreciprocated” love foolish? Why do Indian movies revolve around love when so many people simply choose who they marry and learn to love later?

The complexity between love and belief has captivated my little mind. I like to believe that there is a providential love that God orchestrates and puts His faith in.

I think Meera deserves more credit. She is not the only one in the world who prays. She is not the only one in the world who loves.

Who knows how the world works? Well, God does.
He knows the intricacies in human hearts. The heart is deceitful above all things, so it has been said. At the same time, love is the most powerful force in the world.

God is love. God bows in the face of love when He shows us the ultimate expression of His love, freedom to choose. There are people who come into our hearts, and they stay, forever.

Love is complicated, but I do believe that when it is felt, it is known by every atom of one’s being.

EDIT: Maybe I don’t know exactly how to talk about the complexity of the film’s focus, but I wanted to address the things that made me think. What I do understand is her devotion and “strong belief,” and how it shaped her choices. I also identify with Yash Chopra’s belief of providential love withstanding time.

Anyway–

Akira ends the film saying, “Love that breaks you but still keeps you together;
love that creates distances but still brings you closer.
Love that is true and forever.

And I learned that if you have the power to love like that,
then God makes sure that your love finds its way.”

Asking the hard questions

By: Gabriela Yareliz

People who know a little bit about everything; they learn every day; they feed off of silence and awkwardness; they are curious; they are versatile; they are travelers; they are steel; they are elegant; they are charming; they vow to defend truth. Who are they? Journalists.

1] Rebecca Mead

2] Adam Gopnik (Photo by: Matt Valentine)

3] Rick Bragg

4] Diane Sawyer

5] David Carr

6] Mike Foley

7] David Ignatius

8] Fareed Zakaria

For some humor, check out Journalism Problems.

Today in Pictures

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Today, in pictures:

1] Saw Madeline Albright speak some brilliance today at a convention on R2P and Genocide Prevention.

2] Huma Abedin stood by her man, potential future mayor of New York? I admire her strength. Huma for mayor?

3] Royal Baby outing

4] Political ambiance

Emerald Moonlight Pearl

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Stolen glances,
houses white under moonlight;
emerald hills.
Peace and angst in blend,
golden shadows cast.
The sky is a perfect shade of dark,
a blue so thick it envelopes resignation.

Trembling emotion,
the kind that leaves you breathless
and crying-all at once.
It leaves you gasping for not air,
not peace, not sanity,
just hoping the feeling will drench you.

Glows cast off are what you search for carefully,
you trace the path carefully.
The method like tracing with your fingers on concrete.

Stillness.
There is no air nor aid.
Surrounded but still in solitary stillness.
Terrifying energy whose current travels in veins.
Mysterious words unspoken, only twinkled in the eyes,
treasured in me like a pearl.

Celebrating Life

By: Gabriela Yareliz

1] Royal baby-OH YEAH.
The royal baby arrived today! Congrats to the Will & Kate. This long awaited child finally arrived. I mean, there were people on the news trying to talk about what the baby would look like, playing some genetic bingo–not kidding.
UK is in a frenzy over this. Or at least that is what they are having us across the pond believe. Man, we need a royal family in the U.S. One that can distract us from government woes… I shan’t digress. Congrats to the royal family and to the UK; you now have a new human to watch.

2] Happy Birthday Selener (Yes, that is said in a Nicki Minaj voice)

Happy 21. The ever-so-gorgeous Selena Gomez is 21. She has become quite the racy one these days; disappointing if you ask me. But I do applaud the fact that she has always given the impression that she is very comfortable in her own skin, she has never tried to be blonde (which I really respect), she has some beautiful hair, and she is really creative with makeup and advocating true beauty in all girls, no matter what the shape or size. She is now trying to be a sexy bombshell…good luck with that my dear. Hopefully, you will realize you don’t have to sell your soul or dignity for people to see you as grown up; but that is part of what growing up is all about–choices.

Choose wisely. 😉
Growing up is hard to do…no one said this was easy.