Practically Speaking

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Today, our Bible study focused on the topic of holiness. Holiness is an important aspect and attribute of God, and it’s important for us to allow God to make us holy, if we really are to reflect who He is.

All of us sitting around the circle with our Bibles and lesson study books looked relieved at the fact that holiness is a gift from God. Our role is to come to Him and to allow Him to transform our hearts.

Still, many of us felt a bit burdened in knowing that in life we deal with very real issues and character flaws. Issues that may embarrass us or make us feel devalued. We struggle with our own pride, narcissism and our failures with others whom we love. Marriages face their potholes, relationships face their detours and sometimes our relationship with ourself is harsh, exacting and unforgiving.

A point in our Bible study was:
“Too often we are self-centered in our religion. We focus too much on our victories and on our defeats rather than [focusing] on God, who alone can give us victory.” Instead of looking to ourselves, we must look up to God. (Page 75; The Holy Spirit and Spirituality; Adult Sabbath School Bible Study)

Hebrews 12:14 tells us: “Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.” Sin separates us from God; therefore, it’s inevitable that if we are close to God, His holiness manifests itself in us.

We studied in the book of Job, in the prior quarter, that being blameless means to live righteously with the light we receive from God. To be blameless before God is not to be flawless but to be spiritually mature and where He wants us to be.

How is it that we can be blameless? We all want this holiness and know that it will require humility and surrender to God. God doesn’t ask us to become holy to approach Him. Instead, He asks us to approach Him and let Him transform us.

What does holiness look like in practical terms? For those of us who end up bickering with a loved one; for those of us who maybe let the flesh desires take hold and we are intemperate, perhaps even in the way we eat; for those of us who aren’t quite patient or kind and prefer pettiness or revenge– how do we, the real humans in this drama, show fruit of holiness?

We discussed today that holiness is based on our relationship with God. It starts with relationship and end with relationship. It’s a journey, a race, a process, an endurance. It’s trying again, over and over again. It’s opening God’s word and seeking His promise and what we have been called to.

I was encouraged by Galatians 5:22-23, which discussed the fruits and attributes that embody holiness. And we must have all of them because when one is missing, something is off.

When we reflect the whole character of God, we reflect:
Love;
Joy;
Peace;
Patience;
Kindness;
Goodness;
Faithfulness;
Gentleness;
Self-control.

I don’t know about you, but I really want to embody these traits and live them out genuinely.

I thought it would be neat to pray, asking God, for each trait, one by one. Really thinking about what each one means; striving to see how we can live this out practically in the day-to-day. Asking God for His gift and power to reflect Him.

Holiness allows us to behold God. It transforms us. It was what we were created for, therefore the restoration of it in us has got to be one of the most powerful experiences of all.

Come Walk With Me: Old San Juan, Part III

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By: Gabriela Yareliz

If you are a cat lover, you’ll enjoy wandering the Old San Juan. You will find these little guys in the most unexpected places.

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In the bed of a truck:

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Governor’s mansion, La Fortaleza:

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Come Walk With Me: Old San Juan, Part II

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By: Gabriela Yareliz

These are some of my favorite views from our walks around San Juan. That cemetery left me in awe.

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We climbed up on the wall, in efforts to get closer to this incredible view:

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We started walking up the hill, toward the fort, and then we happened to look back. We all gasped in awe. This is what we saw:

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Come Walk With Me: Old San Juan

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By: Gabriela Yareliz

Our first outing in the Old San Juan was lovely. The sun was bright, the sky was blue, and we got rained on a bit by an impromptu shower that lasted five minutes.

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The cathedral where Marc Anthony got married:

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Come Walk With Me: Arecibo, Puerto Rico

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By: Gabriela Yareliz

This observatory is definitely a must-see for the beautiful view and for educational purposes. The ultimate stop for nerding out. Bring walking shoes, because you will burn off your breakfast on the hike up the hill. They have neat interactive games, videos and demos to explain how the observatory and outer space works, plus knowledgeable staff on hand. There is also an impressive collection of meteors with information about where they were found. You probably won’t think about the night sky in the same way again.

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Erin Andrews

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Can we take a minute and talk about Erin Andrews? She is fantastic. She was born on the same day as me (that’s not why she is fantastic, but I think it’s pretty cool). She is a fellow University of Florida College of Journalism graduate. Florida girl. She also has made it in an industry that is tough for women– reporting, and not only reporting but sports reporting. She reports from the sidelines, looking fabulous.

She has been in the news, lately. She had a tough year with her stalker case going to trial. She suffered a violation of privacy that brought her much suffering. And most recently, she revealed that she was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2016.

She was battling cancer while reporting from the sidelines and while co-hosting Dancing With the Stars. I read in her interview that during her trial, everyone kept telling her how strong she was, and it wasn’t until her cancer diagnosis that she began to believe it and tell herself that she was strong.

She would tell herself, “Hey, I have cancer, but dammit, I am strong, and I can do this.”

She didn’t miss a game.

Andrews is now clear of any cancer she had, and she recently got engaged in December. Personally, I am hoping this will be her best year yet. She deserves it. This is a woman who embodies strength, with courage, beauty and brains to match. #warrior

Come Walk With Me: Playa Chiquita, Puerto Rico

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By: Gabriela Yareliz

Playa Chiquita is one of those places you walk around quietly and try to absorb and memorize as much of the scenery as possible. It’s gorgeous. The water was rough, blue and stunning.

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This couple was having its own photoshoot:

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Playa Chiquita had an important message for all of us:

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Monday Inspiration: January 30, 2017

“The simple things are also the most extraordinary things, and only the wise can see them.” Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

Pay attention to the simple and to the extraordinary.

Happy Monday!

GY

Sunday Girl: January 29, 2017

By: Gabriela Yareliz

On Sundays, I wake up like Kate, from the movie No Reservations. You know, the chef. She wakes up early to pick out the fish and truffles for her fancy West Village restaurant. I wake up early and pick up the missing ingredients for the dishes I want to make for the week.

COOKING
I wake up early, without an alarm, and I bundle up and march over to the market to get the goods. Trying  new recipes has been so much fun and so therapeutic. I am on a mission to gain some 5-7 lbs., and so it has been great to feed myself and know exactly what is going into my body. I have been experimenting with new recipes for the past 6 months. I stopped buying many soy-based “meats,” and opted for real plant-based foods. Plants. Lots of plants.

I am starting to understand a lot of the philosophy great gourmands share.

These are some of the cookbooks that have inspired me the most in my journey to make plant-based meals (real food):

Usually, what I will do is put on, in the background, an old Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen movie (you know, where they kiss foreign guys, and the viewer is expected to believe a wonderful international romance will blossom and thrive) or a French reality TV show (hosted by Cristina Cordula) that conjures more tears than cutting onions (the show is so touching, you see people heal as they get makeovers after traumatic life events). Sometimes, I FaceTime with my childhood friend, Liz, and we cook together, while chatting.

I cook for the week, and it makes the week easier, cheaper and healthier. I end up exhausted afterward, I am not going to lie. But it’s satisfying, and I wouldn’t trade it–

Here is to becoming a little master chef in 2017. #inspired

LOVE

Valentine’s Day is coming soon. It got me meditating on how beautiful life is when we take the time to reflect on all of the love we receive from the amazing people around us.

“Being in love is not merely a feeling. It is a deep unity maintained by the will and deliberately strengthened by habit; reinforced by the grace which both partners ask, and receive, from God.” C.S. Lewis

SPRING HOPES

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[Image from Le 21eme]

I know we are still in the dead of winter. Leggings are ubiquitous, and yesterday, I saw thick snowflakes falling. Still, I can’t help but be excited about spring. February is almost upon us, and let’s hope the groundhog brings us some good news.

I want lighter jackets, sunshine, flowers, green and no tights. Spring– I miss you. Come soon.

WEDDING VIBES

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One of my best friends is getting married this summer. It is going to be grand. I am so happy for her and this new chapter she will be starting. Liz got married last summer, and it was really beautiful to be a part of that. Love is a beautiful thing that should be celebrated, and I am excited I will be celebrating this new union, as well. This will mean a new addition to the family, and we are all delighted. Lots of changes up ahead.

Some thoughts on marriage from the fantastic mind of Gary Thomas:

“A good marriage isn’t something you find; it’s something you make.”

“If you want to be free to serve Jesus, there’s no question– stay single. Marriage takes a lot of time. But if you want to become more like Jesus, I can’t imagine any better thing to do than to get married. Being married forces you to face some character issues you’d never have to face otherwise.”

“Christian love must be chased after, aspired to and practiced.”

HAPPY WEEK

All right, my friends. I am wishing you an inspired start to the week. This Sunday Girl is off to rest.

Come Walk With Me: Jayuya, Part II

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By: Gabriela Yareliz

We went to Jayuya’s Hacienda San Pedro, where the legendary good coffee is grown and made.

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We also visited Casa Canales, and we learned about why it is important in Puerto Rican history.

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We visited El Semi, the museum on Taino history.

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We spent time with family:

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And there is nothing like family.