GABRIELA YARELIZ

Teaching girls they can be themselves

By: Gabriela Yareliz

I am absolutely adoring the faces emerging in the media:

Becky G
A new Latina rap artist. Where was she when I was growing up, when we were all praying 17 prayers a day for God to close the gap in our front teeth?

Mindy Kaling
Writer and actress. She is beautiful, and her humor is on point.

Fifth Harmony
Singers and dreamers.

[From: Fifth Harmony Wiki]

As women, we often feel pressure to change. As a culture, Americans have always been striving for perfection; perfect body (even if you have to starve), perfect hair (even if you have to clip in fake hair), perfect nails (even if you have to pay way too much at a place where your lungs are perforated by chemicals), perfect height (even if the shoes are painful) and perfect smiles (even if it means veneers).

Now, there are women of all shapes, sizes and colors that we can identify with. We can still improve, but we’ve got to start somewhere. Above all, diversity shows that what matters is what is in your heart and that there is beauty everywhere.

It’s nice to see women who remain true to themselves. It inspires other young women and girls. Girls are now being told it’s okay to be uniquely themselves.

Pave your own path.
Never forget where you came from.
Embrace even the things that make you different.
As we begin doing this, we show others that what makes you different makes you beautiful;
It’s fantastic to be yourself.

Can Women Afford to Lean Out Instead of Lean In?

This was great. Very interesting.

Look to God

You must look to God and trust in Him. Lean upon Him, and He will not forsake you. He will not leave you to perish. Precious is the word of God. “Search the Scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life.” These are the words of Christ. The words of inspiration, carefully and prayerfully studied and practically obeyed, will thoroughly furnish you unto all good works. Ministers and people must look to God. – {2T 120.2} by Ellen G. White, Testimonies for the Church, vol. 2

Who we are supposed to be

Quotes by Ellen G. White, Testimonies for the Church, vol. 2

“We are forbidden to wrong our neighbor in anything. We should not view the matter from the worldling’s standpoint. To deal with our fellow men in every instance just as we should wish them to deal with us is a rule which we should apply to ourselves practically. God’s laws are to be obeyed to the letter. In all our intercourse and deal with our fellow men, whether believers or unbelievers, this rule is to be applied: ‘Love thy neighbor as thyself.’” – {2T 43.1}

“God calls you to separate from the world. You are not to follow their practices, nor conform to them in your course of action in any respect. ‘But be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.’” – {2T 43.2}

“If you separate from the world in your affections, and remain free from its contamination, escaping the corruption that is in the world through lust, God will be your Father, He will adopt you into His family, and you will be His heir. In place of the world, He will give you, for a life of obedience, the kingdom under the whole heavens. He will give you an eternal weight of glory and a life that is as enduring as eternity.” – {2T 44.1}

“If you walk contrary unto God, He will walk contrary unto you.”– {2T 45.2}

“In order to render to God perfect service, you must have clear conceptions of His requirements.”– {2T 46.1}

“The treasure we are seeking is imperishable, eternal, immortal, all overglorious; while that of which the worldling is in pursuit, endures but a day; it is fading, perishable, fleeting as the morning cloud.” – {2T 46.3}

“Keep the eye steadily fixed upon Christ, upon the divine image. Imitate His spotless life, and you will be a partaker of His glory, and with Him inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.” – {2T 49.2}

This Month’s Picks: February 2014

1] On Problems:
Until you and I fix the spiritual cause, you won’t fix the physical effect. Dr. Tony Evans paraphrase

4] A place to check out in New York City:
Chinatown Fair Family Fun Center
They have a great deal on Living Social; or call to inquire: 551-697-5549.
Plan your next family weekend with a visit here, and help our local businesses grow.

5] Hilarious. I vote Danny and Mindy.

6] Gloria Pritchett

“Yes, people are allowed their private thoughts. And I shouldn’t be so angry. But I am Latin, so I get to feel whatever I want.”

7] Reminds me of criminal procedure…

9] A song for the child on the street: Mercedes Sosa ft. Calle 13

10] Watching the magical Kimye Proposal. My favorite part was the sisters’ reactions.

The best:

11] Amelia Vega and Al Horford Valentine’s Day photo

Al Horford & Amelia Vega

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13] A lovely, old song.

14] A Bible literally saved this bus driver’s life. Wow.

15] Sofia Coppola’s stunning cover for Vogue Italia.

citazioni dagli italiani

Roberto Benigni:

Federico Moccia:

Selling the birthright

By: Gabriela Yareliz
Quotes by Ellen G. White, Testimonies for the Church, vol. 2

There is a story of two very different twins. One who had a birthright (he was the firstborn son, named Esau), and he didn’t really care about it. The one who didn’t have the birthright, Jacob, wanted it bad.

One day after being out all day, the firstborn, Esau, came back ravenous and exhausted, and the other twin, Jacob, offered him a soup in exchange for the blessing of the birthright. The ravenous firstborn accepted flippantly, and sat down to eat.

Later, Esau realized that what he gave up so aloofly would not be retrievable. (Genesis 25:29-34)

“There are very many who are like Esau. He represents a class who have a special, valuable blessing within their reach,—the immortal inheritance, life that is as enduring as the life of God, the Creator of the universe, happiness immeasurable, and an eternal weight of glory,—but who have so long indulged their appetites, passions, and inclinations, that their power to discern and appreciate the value of eternal things is weakened.” – {2T 38.1}

“Those who choose to make excuses and continue in sin and conformity to the world will be left to their idols.” – {2T 41.1}

Oftentimes, we give up truth and blessings God has bestowed on us for earthly pursuits and earthly success.

“[People] In their supposed wisdom they turned away from the high, eternal reward, rejected the heavenly inducement, for earthly gain. The glitter and tinsel of earth fascinated them, and in their supposed wisdom they became fools.“– {2T 41.3}

“Money was power among the foolish of earth, and money was their god; but their very prosperity has destroyed them. They became fools in the eyes of God and His heavenly angels, while men of worldly ambition thought them wise.”– {2T 42.1}

We must reevaluate what we are “selling” and what we are getting in exchange. Let us not forget that it is the unseen that is eternal. (2 Corinthians 4:18). Truth, virtue, honor, integrity and God’s blessings are of immeasurable worth. Don’t sacrifice it for what can be destroyed or taken away.

Make sure your life and priorities place a NOT FOR SALE sign on your connection with God.

The Right Answer

“The truth is always the right answer.” Schindler’s List

Counsel

By: Ellen G. White, Testimonies to the Church, vol. 2

“There is One to whom you can go for counsel, whose wisdom is infinite. He has invited you to come to Him, for He will supply your need. If by faith you cast all your care upon Him who marks the falling of a sparrow, you will not trust in vain. If you will rest upon His sure promises, and maintain your integrity, angels of God will be round about you. Maintain good works in faith before God; then will your steps be ordered by the Lord, and His prospering hand will not be removed from you.” – {2T 71.2}

False Spring

“When spring came, even false spring, there were no problems except where to be happiest. The only thing that could spoil a day was people and if you could keep from making engagements, each day had no limits. People were always the limiters of happiness except for the very few that were as good as spring itself.” Ernest Hemingway, A Moveable Feast, pg. 40

By: Gabriela Yareliz

Today, it was 55 degrees in the city. Unbelievable. I went out wearing jeans– minus the rubber-like leggings I wear underneath them, with just a tank top under a hoodie. It was spring; except there were black mountains of snow all around. We are supposedly getting more snow and stormy weather later this week. So, this weekend was our false spring. It was filled with blue skies, sunshine, the piano man at Washington Square Park and life.

Deadlines were the adversary of my enjoyment of this weekend, but at least this weekend served as a sneak peek of spring, which I hope will be imminently arriving. Come to us Spring. Come with your sunshine, life, flowers, rain, cute birds, hope and slight humidity. Show us how death turns into life. Come and charm us soon. Because once you arrive, many of us know for sure that our liberation (the end of the semester) is at hand.

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Page by Vivienne Gucwa – Tree lined path in spring. Conservatory Garden. Central Park, New York City.